Joseph: Does you know anyone who’s been disinherited?
I’d like to chat with them about their experience.
Alexis: I was but it was kind of a mutual sentiment of disowning each other.
Joseph: Was it an actual mutual sentiment?
Or was there any element of inequity?
Alexis: It was overall mutual.
Neither party saw any benefit in the relationship. I wish him well. I know God is the real parent anyway and human parents just play a temporary role, sometimes not terribly well. They eventually become no different than a stranger or some movie you watched decades ago that you can’t remember much details on. It’s been about 30 years.
Joseph: How long did it take to go from initial dispute to final decision to cut ties?
Alexis: About 10 years. He didn’t like the Rules of Evidence so it became a mistrial. 😆. .
Joseph: Holy moly!
I’m just passing the first year mark and aiming to start filing within this year or next.
What was the hardest part for you and what got you through the darkest moments?
from denise
as for me, the hardest part was zero support from my own mother throughout the 3 months and 7 days of andrea being on hospice.
in the 57 yrs of my life, me and my mom have never ever ever been mad or upset at each other, we had a great relationship.
and I will never understand how she could of prioritize worldly item of a house over the life of her own granddaughter.
as for Janette
i expected nothing from her but self-centeredness that revolved around her as life revolves around her needs only and no one elses and she was the driving force that lead our vulnerable mom
as for charmelle
I pray her salvation on coming to know the Lord
what got me through the darkest moments?
I have been a believer in God all my life but the thing I lacked was an intimate relationship with him.
after Andrea’s death and hurting about how they didn’t care, I was at the absolute lowest point of my life…
to drown out the pain, I opened the bible and read it beginning to end then started a deep study. I didn’t realize God was going to transform my whole self.
wow, what an incredible journey !!
looking back, God had to take me though this journey in order to surrender my whole life to him. My storm is over and my sea is now calm. My life is his, my life is not my own anymore. God is now leading my life and I am no longer leading my own life.
I pray every night for my family that they also find peace through God and someday we can all truly reconcile and live for the Lord.
if not this life here on the physical,
then in Heaven with God
so my prayers will be answered